My two boys couldn’t be any more different. The first born has rarely ever sat and eaten an entire meal. He hasn’t got time, too busy building mass transit rails and roadways for the trains and trucks. Occasionally he’ll be in the mood for bacon and eggs but usually only eats half before he’s off playing again. He does eat, he just doesn’t like to sit still and eat.
But, here he is chowing down on seaweed salad for the first time.
He still likes his seaweed salad… but all in all he’d rather be playing.
The new baby, on the other hand is FASCINATED by food. I guess I noticed it on one of our pizza nights. He seemed so interested in what we were doing so I gave him some crust. Oh, he was a happy baby boy! He just gnawed on it until there was nothing left.
While feeding him mashed potatoes he started crying. I thought he was done but tried to slip one more bite in… he wasn’t done!!! He started crying because I wasn’t feeding him quickly enough! He stopped crying as soon as I got the spoon near him again! Then he grabbed the spoon! I left him to play with the bowl and feed himself. He was HAPPY!
The other day my friend made coconut cream pie and I was there to have a taste. I had to nurse the little guy so she offered to bring me a piece on a plate. That kid smelled it coming, popped off my breast and turned himself over smacking his hand right into my piece of pie. Oh, he was PLEASED! Licked the creamy goodness off his paw and kept reaching for more. I had to stop trying to eat it because he kept grabbing for my fork! So, my friend took him so I could eat. She had her piece on the arm of the couch. Wouldn’t you know, that kid was lunging with all his might at that piece of pie! We tried to give a bite to the toddler (had to interrupt a serious play session with some trucks, trains and cars). He was not impressed. Tried to pull it out of his mouth with a tissue and started gagging. A very different reaction from his little brother.
I think the boy’s favorite is avocado. That food earns a smile like no other =)
All in all, I’d say this kid is one happy eater! This is a new experience for us. We’re used to bribing the toddler to get him to eat, even if it’s something he likes! This one even tried to get my turkey sandwich this evening! Man, he can lunge for stuff!
We are trying a method called Baby-Led Weening.
I don’t know enough to give any expert opinions or advise so check out the book or the fb pages
for more accurate info. Basically, we’re not spoon feeding him rice cereal. We are giving him foods that we eat (but starting out slowly, one food at a time.. like avocado, banana, toast, noodles etc.) and letting him decide how to get it to his mouth and how to masticate it properly. For me BLW has removed a lot of stress from mealtimes (any stress I can eliminate is a good thing when trying to manage MS). Soon, he’ll just be eating what we eat.. and I don’t have to puree anything or buy jar after jar of baby food! Wish I’d known about this 3 years ago!
Our first attempt at Baby-Led Weening (our first food) was watermelon. It was delightful to watch. His hand/eye coordination was not great so he couldn’t quite get the watermelon up off his tray, so he squeezed all the juice out and then licked his hands. Oh! The squeals of delight!!!